marcelloNYC's Blog
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Friday Morning Wood
written over 2 years ago
Another phone pic, I am just too lazy to get the camera etc at 6am.These new earlier hours are hard to get used to.It seems everyone likes the hand in the undies pics, so here is another one.^^^^TGIF^^^^Luv ya,Marcello -
Jane's Guide - Review of My Blog
written over 2 years ago
Thank you Vamp and Janes's Guide for the very appreciated review."sexual-eccentricity
This blog is written by Marcello, a thirty-something pansexual male from New York. Can I just say that I adore this guy? He writes about his sexuality, which includes a submissive nature. He talks openly and honestly about his foot fetish, love of anal play, and exploration of his own fluid sexuality. One of the most wonderful things about this blog, however, is his discussion of non-sexual male intimacy and vulnerability. Here is one of my favorite things that he wrote, "My point being - as men we have a right to make sure our friends are Ok - mentally, physically and sexually...We need to get to the point in our male-male friendships where sensitivity and openness between us is not perceived as weird, but healthy." That is fabulous! All this sound and sensitive commentary, and nice naked pictures to boot. What is there to complain about? Great blog! - VampDate Reviewed: 2008-06-12"Luv you and much thanks again,Marcello -
hApPy hAlF-nEkKiD tHuRSdAy
written over 2 years ago
hApPy hAlF-nEkKiD tHuRSdAyI am so glad you guys are part of my life. Each and every one of you put a big smile on my face with each comment, email, meetup etc...I freakin luv you guys!Extra pics just for you this week.Luv ya,Marcelloxxoo -
Why do you Love "The City" So Much(with a twist to the story)??
written over 2 years ago
Sunday afternoon I was at a BBQ/Christening and one of my oldest friends asked me this, "why do you love 'the city' and hate Staten Island so much." I gave him this response.First, I do not hate Staten Island, I just prefer not to live here. Before moving to Atlanta I lived in Hoboken, then the lower east side, and now after moving back, I jumped at an offer for a free apartment in my parents house. It enabled me to get on my feet, save some money, and give me time to look for what I really want. Plus I was also working on the island.Second, Staten Island is the evil stepchild of the five boroughs, cut off from the city because of a non-direct route of entry. There is no one way to enter Manhattan. It is either a bus or train, then the ferry followed by a train again depending on where you are headed. Driving is two bridges or a bridge and tunnel. It is a borough ruled by driving, and I do not want to own a car anymore. I want to be able to use the MTA ($150 month on insurance + $300mo. car payment and $80/wk for gas = $770 for me, and I am helping out the environment).Third, Manhattan has variety, it is lively, open 24hrs and it is where most of my friends live except you and a few others who moved to Jersey and I never get to see unless it is an occasion like this. I just love the hustle and bustle of Manhattan, and Brooklyn where I work now. It is nice seeing people walking up and down streets, Staten Island loses that and....Friend: Cuts me off and said, "Yeah, but ya know they are all freaks and fags in the city.......you kinda have those gay mannerisms about you too."Me: "Well that would make sense since I am bisexual and hang out with 'freaks and fags'."Friend: "What the fuck?"Me: "Problem?"Friend: "No, but are you serious?"Me: "Yes!"Friend: "I am sorry for the fag comment, you know I didn't mean it like that."Me: "Well then how did you mean it?"Friend: "I don't know, it is just something I say.... I don't know, can we just forget about it."Me: "Sure, but in the future think about what you say before you say it, you can not take back words once they are said."Friend: "Honestly, I am sorry."Me: "Ok."We hug it out in that straight guy pat on the back, ass sticking out kind of way. I then see him walk over to his wife, they chat, she is shaking her head at him and walks over to me.Friend's Wife: "He's an asshole, are you ok?"Me: "Yes, but please don't make a big deal about it."Friend's Wife: "Does everyone here know?"Me: "No, I have been telling people as questions are asked, or if they find out on their own."Friend's Wife: "You know I love you, right?"Me: "Of Course!"Friend's Wife: "You know he likes me sticking things in his ass."Me: "That's fantastic!"Friend's Wife: "You think he is gay? It started after your Christmas gift of that book by Violet Blue - we thought it was a gag gift, but you were serious with it....huh."Me: laughing "You know, whatever, but seriously it is healthy and it does not make him gay."Friend's Wife: "Call me if you need to talk ever, we never see each other anymore."Me: " I will, love you too."So, that was my Sunday afternoon along with a few remarks about the bite marks on my left anterior shoulder and the hickey on my left trapezius." Fun Saturday!Fun Sunday! I am curious to see how long before I hear from him.Ciao,Marcello, -
Friday Morning Wood
written over 2 years agoOK, I'm back with the wood!I took it with my phone this morning, so I am sorry about the crappy size and quality.TGIF Baby!!!!luv ya,Marcello
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hApPy hAlF-nEkKiD tHuRSdAy
written over 2 years ago
This will finish up my photos from last weeks shower series.I am at the NYC Pleasure Salon Meet Up, chilling with friends and meeting new ones, so if I do not get around to comment on your beautiful HNT pics tonight, it will happen tomorrow.Luv ya,Marcelloxxoo -
Andrea and I: The Not So Final Chapter
written over 2 years agosensory deprivation Introspective Foot Fetish BDSM Sexual-Eccentricity sexuality Mistress A Writing Assignment
The first 4 parts of the series are here:This post has been a long time coming. These are the answers to a few emailed questions about my D/s relationship with Mistress Andrea, and why it ended if we still love each other so much.I had mentioned in previous posts that we were totally engrossed in each other to the point that nothing around us mattered. We would literally loose track of time (days) - I would have been happy living naked in a cardboard box with her.We hated being apart, and when we were together we were always on top of each other. Intercourse was weird because she was sexually abused as a child and identified herself as being mostly lesbian, even when we were together. But there was something that drew her to me and me to her. She was always on top and controlled our rhythm, and a lot of times I would just enter her and we would lay side by side kissing and caressing each other. I had no problems with any of this, but there would be weeks that she did not want to have any penetration, and I was always supportive, but yearned for that closeness. The best way to describe how we felt is to explain it like this - as much as I loved her I could never get close enough to her, and she felt the same way; we wanted to take our passion and love to another realm.After being together for about a year we started experimenting with drugs: ecstacy, special k, LSD, cocaine etc. It was part of our party life style - sex, drugs and music. I was dj-ing every night or working in recording studios, and she was a club podium dancer. We were very popular, invited everywhere, given everything and enjoyed it all, but we were destroying our lives. My parents did not approve of her, but accepted her and never made her feel uncomfortable except one time, and I told them if they ever did that again it would be the last they would ever hear or see of me. I loved her so much I would have disowned my parents.We eventually were able to move past the drugs and substituted it with exploring deeper aspects of BDSM: sex, and especially oral during mensuration; severe sensory deprivation (at least to me), piercing etc.At around the two year mark she wanted to travel Europe and I was ready to pack up and go with her, but after a life altering experience (read this post, if you haven't) I decide to move to Atlanta for school. We stayed together in a long distance relationship for a short time and then lost touch for about 6mos when she finally made it to europe. After reconnecting we shared a common feeling that we were soul mates, but in a different way; we not meant to be together in the traditional sense, but instead intimate friends on a spiritual journey that would never end.Today she lives in Paris with her wife, they are very happy, just had a baby boy - Marcello *big grin*. I turned her down to donate my sperm because she has no intentions of ever returning to the USA, and I could not deal with not being able to love and see my child often. She understood and felt the same way. We talk every few weeks via the internet, and phone about 1x month. She is a very special person to me and holds a place in my heart forever. She helped me mature and become who I am today, and she continues to guide me. She says that I renewed her life, faith and love in humanity - I helped her heal.Do I miss her? Yes! Do I regret anything? Hell No! Do I wish we were together? At this point in my life, No, but if you asked me that up to about 8 years ago I would have said, yes.I love you Andrea...Marcelloxxoo -
A Few Ruff Weeks, But I Am Back To Me!
written over 2 years ago
So as I promised, I am writing this post to let you all know what has been happening in the life of Marcello.After returning from Punta Cana on May 13th, my life was being pulled in many directions. Prior to vacation I was working 3- 3 1/2 days a week at a chiropractic office in Staten Island, but it was not a good place for me. I was not excelling, and I was not happy living or working on Staten Island. Reality kicked in as the sand between my toes disappeared and I was faced with some post-vacation blues. To top it off I met an amazing girl on vacation, and she lives on the other side of the world with her boyfriend - my luck.So, I decided to really give this new office in Brooklyn that I interviewed at before leaving for Punta Cana a serious consideration. I took the job, but kept the S.I. office also. I went from working a few days a week to 6 days a week and almost 70hrs. I finally decided on Friday that the office in Brooklyn is where I belong, so that area of my life is settled. Now, I need to move off of staten Island and into Manhattan; if any of you know of any reasonably priced apartments (Chelsea, Village area or anywhere else) please let me know. 1200/mo, I might even be able to swing 1500.My personal life is also been a little weird. I returned from vacation and lost my sex drive for about 10 days, but I am happy to say it is back with a vengeance LOL! Rob (ambi bi-guy)and I have been chilling quite a bit together. I like him! That is weird to me still, because I never thought that my interest in guys would lead to a possible relationship. I thought my my attraction was mostly sexual. So, there is some stress in the fact that he is totally out, and I fell I am not because my parents/family does not know. He also is not to big on the sex-blogging, BDSM, open relationship ideas - so I don't know where this is going, but I am honest with him, and him me, and we are enjoying the moment. Amanda and Desiree get back from vacation next week, they went to Miami for 2 weeks that is why you have not heard much about them.Friday Night was 18 shades of awesome. I met MsLily and Her Knight at their hotel, we headed to Son Cubano for dinner, then Lotus for some drinks and music. We strolled around the city and I had such a wonderful time with them. Truly beautiful people, friends forever!In conclusion, I am still my usual self just extra busy. That is why I have not had anytime to write. This week my life will be a lot more settled. I have a few posts coming up. Tuesday, a short post about why Mistress Andrea and I are no longer together (answer to an emailed question); Wednesday a sex toy review for Babeland; Thursday HNT, Friday Morning Wood; Saturday - Review of eon Mckai's Doll Underground.Last note : If any of you reading this still have not joined Fetlife, get your ass there now.Ciao,luv ya guys,Marcelloxxoo -
Sexy Post Awards
written over 2 years ago
ONE OF YOUR POSTS RECEIVED THE SEXY POST FAVORITES AWARD. TO FIND OUT WHAT POST CHECK THE LIST BELOW. TO SHOW OFF YOUR BADGE PLEASE READ AND FOLLOW THE STEPS BELOW! THESE AWARDS ARE ONLY FAIR AND USEFUL IF THE STEPS ARE CONTINUOUSLY FOLLOWED WITHOUT ANY ALTERCATION!
If you would like to pass an award to a sexy blogger, feel free to do so. Just make sure to keep the rules exactly as they are, links and all!
Ode To Anal! Why? by Wendy Blackheart
Extensive List of Slave Positions by Alternative Albany
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Rules:
Step 1 Find 3 of your favorite posts done by other adult bloggers
Step 2 Create a new blog posting titled “Sexy Post Awards” (amend post title with a 1, 2, 3, etc. corresponding with how many times you’ve been awarded!)Step 3 Copy the code for the rules(a cut and paste copy of rules can always be found by clicking this link)
Step 4 Paste the code for the rules in your “Sexy Post Awards” blog posting
Step 5 Copy the Current list of Sexy Post Awards (you may have to view the source of the post) and add your favorite picks to the bottom of the list.
Step 6 Paste your new updated list after the rules of your “Sexy Post Awards”
Step 7 Post your blog
Step 8 Leave a comment on the most recent post of the bloggers whose post you awarded saying: One of your posts has just been awarded the sexy post favorites award. To find out what post visit my Sexy Post Awards (don’t forget to include a link to your posting so they can read the rules and repost the list) -
hApPy hAlF-nEkKiD tHuRSdAy
written over 2 years ago
Since my first shower series went over so well, I decided to do it again.Hope you enjoy it.A lot of readers have been emailing and asking me if I am ok. Thank you, and yes I am fine. I was in a bit of a funk, but I pulled through it and have some good posts going up in a few days, including a sex toy review.I had to make a lot of decisions in the last two weeks that would ultimately effect the rest of my life, so I have been a little pre-occupied, but settled now. I will be writing about it - wink!I luv you guys from the bottom of my heart!Ciao,Marcelloxxoo
